Inspiration and Guidance
Insights
Welcome to Insights!
We are Joseph Randolph (Jorandi) Bowers PhD and Dwayne Andrew Wannamarra Kennedy, PhD
Our PhDs are in Counselling Psychotherapy and we are senior specialists in our fields of practice. As down-to-earth and practical people. We help others to solve problems and find solutions. Our therapy work is heartfelt and applied to real life.
This blog/newsletter shares our insights over the years. The blog began in 2015, and more recent publications reflect the increasing complexity and depth of the field and of our readership. As a niche community based project we’ve had over 60,000 visitors to our site during these now more than 10 years. That is an impressive accomplishment in Australia.
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"I know what my child needs, but the NDIS won't listen."
Holding the line for your child’s quality of life is already a full-time job. But when the system demands endless compliance forms filled with disabling, deficit-based language, it's entirely rational to feel demoralised and ready to give up. You shouldn't have to act as a case manager and an administrative assistant just to get the support your family needs. Discover how a true collaborative partnership can bridge the gap between your real life and the NDIA's bureaucratic demands—taking the heavy lifting off your shoulders so you can protect your energy and just be a parent.
"As parents of an NDIS participant, we are exhausted."
You already know the unwritten rule of the NDIS: securing funding demands clinical, deficit-based language that rarely helps when a crisis unfolds in your kitchen. If your Behaviour Support Plan (BSP) feels like a "paperweight" built for regulators rather than real life, you aren't alone—and it is not your fault. Discover how to turn the tide, bridge the gap between funding compliance and everyday support, and co-write a practical plan that actually works for your family.
A Roadmap for Counselling Transgender Children and Youth
Wondering how often your gender-diverse child needs therapy? Therapy shouldn't feel like a treadmill. Discover our practical, WPATH-aligned roadmap for pacing counselling support—empowering parents and building lifelong family resilience from childhood through adolescence.
Counseling for Transgender Children and Youth
When supporting a transgender or gender-diverse child, many parents wonder: How often do we actually need to see a therapist? In this practical guide, we explore how to effectively pace your child's therapeutic journey. Discover our roadmap for scaling support up or down, and learn how a focus on parent capacity-building can help create lifelong family resilience.
Positive Behaviour Support and Restrictive Practices within the NDIS
Behaviour Support practice in Australia under NDIS is examined with critical analysis of major challenges and suggestions for moving forward.
Transgender and Gender Diversity in Australian Aviation: A Counselling Review
Australian aviation is entering a pivotal time of redirecting inclusion and revision of policy and practice. This paper review looks at the state of play in light of counselling and therapeutic goals for people of minority status in industry.
Decolonizing Male Psychosexual Therapy
Contemporary clinical sexology remains heavily constrained by 20th-century diagnostic materialism, reducing male sexual health to mechanical latency times and coital benchmarks. This paper proposes an affirmative, decolonized psychosexual framework. By integrating evolutionary biology, historiographical analysis, Polyvagal Theory, Ericksonian hypnotherapy, and transpersonal psychology, we move beyond pathologizing rapid ejaculation and performance anxiety. We establish interoceptive awareness and autonomic self-regulation as the primary engines for somatic integration, multi-orgasmic capacity, and relational flow.
Holistic Behaviour Support and Anger Management
This paper looks at how to apply behaviour support with everyday populations - how it can be useful for neurotypical people, and in the application of mainstream counselling psychotherapy. The paper explores how you might realise ways to make therapy more practical and goal oriented where this is timely and appropriate for you.
Neurodivergent Insights
This paper analyzes a foundational first-person narrative of an autistic individual navigating a predominantly neurotypical world. By contextualizing terms like "aberrant attention," "cognitive inflexibility," and "sensory overload," this paper bridges the gap between subjective lived experience and objective clinical frameworks. It provides actionable strategies for three distinct environments: the corporate workplace, relationship counselling, and clinical/academic research, emphasizing a shift from a deficit-based model to a neurodiversity-affirming paradigm.
Through the eyes of Autism
This short piece is a master class in autism awareness. Not of the mind or intellect. But of the heart and felt awareness. To gain this deep insight, visit Dwayne Kennedy PhD and take in his deep insights and wisdom. You may be forever changed.
Gay Men’s Health and Psychosexual Wellbeing: Review of Open-Access Literature
This discussion looks at gay men’s literature from 2020 to 2026, revealing the Aussie trends and insights. At the same time, we add practice based reflections from our experience and perspectives with almost 40 years of work in the field.
Beyond Diagnosis: A Growth-Oriented, Relational, and Transpersonal Framework for Sexology and Intimacy Counselling
Literature on relational sexology has moved forward over the past decade to embrace more holistic perspectives and to challenge social assumptions and stereotypical scripts. This article provides four examples of classical “problems” in sexology and maps the ways these are reframed into holistic pathways to growth and personal awareness.
Gender-Sexuality Affirming Care and WPATH V8 Review
How do we bridge the gap between rigid global medical standards and the sacred, lived reality of gender and sexual diversity? In this comprehensive, chapter-by-chapter review of the WPATH Standards of Care Version 8 (SOC8), Senior Specialist Counselling Psychotherapist Joseph (Jorandi) Randolph Bowers PhD deconstructs international clinical frameworks through an Australian legal, ethical, and transpersonal lens. Moving completely past institutional gatekeeping and historical pathology models, this in-depth guide outlines a person-centred, strength-based approach to telehealth support. Discover how families, communities, and practitioners can move beyond administrative checklists to co-create an authentic, safe sanctuary that honours the deep ecology, personal agency, and wholistic self-realisation of transgender, non-binary, LGBIQ, and Two-Spirit+ individuals.
Gender and Sexuality Affirmation: A Spiritual and Ecological Awakening
For years, mainstream health has treated gender and sexuality like medical checklists to be completed. But our forty years of work shows that finding your true self is actually a beautiful, spiritual awakening. By mapping how social pressures—like family expectations, sexism, and racism—hurt our peace, we can find a path to deep healing. We use online therapy to turn the digital screen into a private, cozy sanctuary, letting you open up and heal right from the comfort of your own home.
The Intimate Screen: Decolonising Telehealth for Deep Psychological Healing
This brief and poignant piece reflects our intimate experience with our clients in online spaces - where we meet to share soul, the depth of heart, the stories of struggle and conflict, and the path to embracing self through deep acceptance while finding ways forward. Therapy via telehealth is a sacred space. Three feelings come to mind: Convergence. Kinship. And mutual understanding.
An Ecology of (Non) Prevalence: Transgender and Gender Diverse Representation in the Healthcare and Helping Professions
This paper analyzes the numerical underrepresentation of transgender and gender-diverse (TGD) professionals in global healthcare. Using an ecologically based sociology of prevalence, it demonstrates that workforce demographics diverge from general society due to three structural barriers: unsafe basic training spaces, institutional gatekeeping in advanced medical degrees, and the intense burden of maintaining personal stability amidst legal and social hostility. Consequently, TGD clinicians heavily cluster within specialized, affirming care niches rather than mainstream acute or general medicine. This distinct concentration underscores a broader global pattern of systemic administrative erasure and high career attrition across the health professions.
Transgender & Gender-diverse Support
We explore the key pillars of person-centred affirmative support with transgender and gender-diverse counselling.
Marriage Equality in Retrospect: 10 Years On
Amazing ten years of changes reviewed during 2016 as a pivotal year when leading up the marriage equality amendment in Australia during 2017.
Understanding Sexual Identity and Orientation
Sexuality research continues to advance the simple idea that acceptance is the key factor - social inclusion is key to support differently abled families and relationships.
From Controlling the Storm to Understanding the Climate: Moving from Behaviour Management to Positive Behaviour Support
Understanding positive behaviour support is key to parents ability to shift from management to PBS approaches. This article helps to bridge the gap.